Effects of the retina
Four years ago I remember studying abroad to come back, the first thought is to buy a car. After a period of assessment, I have decided to buy a medium-sized green sedan. At that time, my impression is that most people buy the car white or black, so they have a unique election, in order to show the personal taste. I is for their own distinctive bought a car and complacent, suddenly found, whether in high-speed on the road, or alley in the yard, and even I live in the jordan shoes parking lot, and I have many cars With the same-colored car.
I started to feel strange that why we are beginning to buy all of a sudden the dark green car? I suddenly found themselves in and around this share. A female colleague is pregnant, I listen to the finish after the fighting said: “I did not see a lot of Molv the car, but I found that many pregnant women now. Last week, I-mortar department store, a short span of two hours on 6 pregnant women to see. “She said of the phenomenon, my colleagues and I have not found none, thought she found that it is probably coincidence!
Later, listening to a lecture, only that the psychological phenomenon known as the “effect of the retina.” To put it simply, is that when we have a thing or characteristics of a time, they will pay more attention to whether or not other people like us have such features.
Mr. Carnegie for a long time ago, argue that the characteristics of each 80% of the strengths, and about 20% of our shortcomings. When a person is only aware of their shortcomings, and I do not know the merits of that, “retina” effect will be to find this man by his side and there are many who have similar weaknesses and thus make it impossible to improve his interpersonal relationships, and life will not be Rs quest.
A man who wants a good popularity, it is necessary to welcome, must be sure to enjoy themselves and their abilities. Because the “effect of the retina,” the operation, one can see the advantages of their own, have the ability to see other people’s merits. And a positive attitude can look at others, good interpersonal relationships are often a prerequisite.
I started to feel strange that why we are beginning to buy all of a sudden the dark green car? I suddenly found themselves in and around this share. A female colleague is pregnant, I listen to the finish after the fighting said: “I did not see a lot of Molv the car, but I found that many pregnant women now. Last week, I-mortar department store, a short span of two hours on 6 pregnant women to see. “She said of the phenomenon, my colleagues and I have not found none, thought she found that it is probably coincidence!
Later, listening to a lecture, only that the psychological phenomenon known as the “effect of the retina.” To put it simply, is that when we have a thing or characteristics of a time, they will pay more attention to whether or not other people like us have such features.
Mr. Carnegie for a long time ago, argue that the characteristics of each 80% of the strengths, and about 20% of our shortcomings. When a person is only aware of their shortcomings, and I do not know the merits of that, “retina” effect will be to find this man by his side and there are many who have similar weaknesses and thus make it impossible to improve his interpersonal relationships, and life will not be Rs quest.
A man who wants a good popularity, it is necessary to welcome, must be sure to enjoy themselves and their abilities. Because the “effect of the retina,” the operation, one can see the advantages of their own, have the ability to see other people’s merits. And a positive attitude can look at others, good interpersonal relationships are often a prerequisite.
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